Linda, Janet, & Nancy in Arizona circa 1954
In the 1950's, my family lived on the edge of a desert in Tucson, Arizona in a new housing area consisting of cinder block duplexes, but little else. Not much grew out there. But one thing that did grow was melon. The way I know that is when we kids would eat watermelon, we would spit our seeds to one side of our front porch. After a time, a watermelon vine would grow carrying a beautiful new melon.
Would we wait till the melon ripened to open it up? Oh no! We impatiently and prematurely cracked open that baby, only to see white hard flesh where juicy sweet redness should be. What a disappointment!
And maybe that's why we are disappointed with our own lives and the lives of our children and others close to us!
There's an interesting verse in the New Testament addressed to fathers, but it could very well be addressed to mothers, daughters, sons, brothers, sisters, other relatives, friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc. Just substitute alternate relationships for the underlined words:
Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart. Col 3:21
How do we exasperate and frustrate our children and others?
By unrealistic expectations of perfection?
By building walls instead of choosing love in difficult situations with others?
By giving up and not counting on God's working?
In reality, full maturity will will not be reached on this earth. Rather it will come when we meet Christ face-to-face.
So in the meantime, dear brothers & sisters, let us abide in Him, keep on growing, and extend to each other (and to ourselves) God's grace:
And now, little children, abide in him... Beloved, we are God’s children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is. 1 John 2:28; 3:2
But grow in grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To Him be the glory both now and to the day of eternity. Amen. 2 Peter 3:18